Monday, November 14, 2005

Update... it's been Soooo long I know, I know...

Well, just a quick update, we are still churning along. I say churning because the ups and downs just simply do not stop. One day to the next, an adventure of all sorts. Alice in Wonderland has NOTHING on us! hahaha..

Well we are scheduled to go to Memphis on January 25th for our "interview" with the government. Gee, you think they'll believe us when we tell them "Yes, we have been together and actually married and living together all this time... Oh, you want pictures???" and we send them to the last room meet site... See it HERE... yeahhhhhhhh they will see something there alright... hahahaha omg!!!!!

Well, all's well that keeps breathing I say! We are breathing still.. sometimes I admit, it seems we are surrounded by dumpsters, but hey! other times, we are in a field of wildflowers... beautiful...

Our friends have really encouraged us every step of the way. Friends from online, friends in the day-to-day real life. It helps. I guess it helps tremendously. Yeah.

I was talking to someone at work today. New job. He asked how I met John... omg what a question. He was so intrigued and having met John.. he just smiled and nodded his head... someone nearby overheard us talking about it and asked some questions... I remember telling her - yeah, he left everything he had in England. I think telling her that reminded me what a tremendous sacrifice he had made. She said "I could never do that"... and I thought to myself, yeah, most people wouldn't.

He did though.

We still struggle. Money problems mostly. ha! and they say the internet is evil! ...money problems... that's where the devil REALLY lives.

Well, I'm off to listen to some tunes... gonna walk around our apartment a bit and look at our pictures framed and placed all over the place. Reminisce a bit before he gets home.. he should be here shortly.

He's a treasure...

hugssssssss and xxxxxxxxxxxxx to you all.

Buttercup

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

just your son here john, hope everythin is going well, hope too see you both soon

love from aaron

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Anonymous said...

Yeah, I am still trying to keep up with you two... its been so long since I saw either of you in the room. Miss you both tons and so glad all is going well for you all... well other than the stupid red tape but you know what you both are soooo strong that all it does is draw you both closer together. Hoping you get everything straightened out legally and I know the future looks bright for you two together. I sit and read your alls blog over and over and think how lucky you both really are... and yes how much John loved you Buttercup to give up all he had to be with you but you also have went thru so much to be with HIM and have him here,just shows how much you both love each other. Huge hugs to you guys and hold on tight to one another{I know you do anyway ;)} and keep in touch when you can and I will be back to keep check. Love you!!! xox ladyusa

Anonymous said...

Christine,
Since I haven't seen you at work, I'm hoping you've gotten a fantastic job. Hope things are going well with you and John.
Take Care,
Kathy
2 Doors Down From Your Former Office