Well we did it. We are now man and Wife, Big Smiles here. It was not what we had planned. The chance was there and we looked at each other, and just did it. We know we still have a lot of things to do. The thing is we can start things moving now.
God am I happy, Buttercup is my wife! Feel so proud, Walking 10ft tall, I have never been as happy in my life as I am now, Just walking around with a great big smile. I know everyone in their lives has said "I love you" to someone. I have. This that I have with Buttercup is so different. Its more than just love. I don't think I would have ever found love if it had not been for Buttercup. She`s one in a million. I am not very good with words. (think its because I can`t spell very well)
I know my heart belongs to her and I was made to be with her, Forever. I know some people will read all this and think I am soft, Some may read it and say awwwwww. The thing is I want people to read this and see if you love someone, I do mean love someone, Not just saying it. Plus mean what you say and you are willing to give it your all, Then it can happen. We want to show people, Its not all plain sailing, But if you hang in there dreams can come true.
Buttercup was my dream,(God did I dream about that woman )She`s everything I have ever wanted and more, God so much more. I know I am a lucky man. To have someone as wonderful as her(The wife, hahaha) some times when I look at her, Its like being in a dream, Well I never ever want to wake up. she`s my world and my life. When I think of how far we have come, Hard times as well as good. Last night I was thinking of all the good times we have had, Some very very special moments. Too many to write down. When we look at each other and both smile, I can`t put the moment into words. It's just something that's there. The feelings I get from those moments. Just wanted to let people who read our site, We are now married. Just wanted to let them know just how proud I am to have Buttercup as my wife. That sounds so good. To be able to say "Buttercup is my wife".
Just want to grow old with you. xx.. John
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If you have spent any time at all in an irc chat room, on msn, yahoo, aol, or any of the other multitude of online sources for live conversation, you have surely seen it... love flourishing... or is it? Is it all just cybering? Well, we are living proof that true love CAN be found online... pure and beautiful... through fire and flame...
Who We Are
- Buttercup and JOHN-43
- We are Buttercup and JOHN-43 and we met in a chat room in 2004. John lived in Manchester, UK and Buttercup lived in Tennessee, USA and while we lived 3500 miles apart, we have been drawn together and are planning to spend the rest of our lives together... somehow. Government red tape, finances, some minor cultural differences, time and distance... they will all be overcome in the end. We will not settle for anything less than each other and growing old together. This is our story. We hope it inspires you. We hope it inspires you enough to share yours.
Some nice things other people have said...
amazing. inspirational. beautiful. unique. I'm out of words...
write ur book. I'll be the first to buy :) - Marina
John and Buttercup.. glad things are picking up for the two of you. You both have came such a long way. Love you both, thanks for being there. Love you two... always have.. ladyusa
I love happy endings and your story certainly has one. I wish you both the best. My husband and I are from different countries and we've been married for the past 15 years. Love can happen when you least expect it :-). I'll have to watch Love Actually. I've been meaning to but never got round to it. - - - I met my best friend online. We've been friends for a long time and have coined a new word for each other -- heartfriends. - - - The internet is a wonderful thing - Audry (AKA Amethyst)
Good luck! Things will owrk out in the end -- you 2 were meant to be together! - kb
Sometimes you can fall, but keep your head upright. Your situation reminds me of my sister-in-law Catrin in Canada. For her as German it was all hard in the beginning. But she managed it and is still there. Good luck - Konrad
i have to say you all look wonderful seems you had a fantastic time food looked great btw LOL hugsssssssssssssssss n xxxxxxxx to you all
thank you for sharing and making the people even more real i can't wait until i get to meet all these wonderful people in Toronto
xxxx Dianne^ :))
Hugssss N SMOoooOooCHIES,
Shebs here... NOt SHEB's SHEEBS...lol and a... how come there's not pictures of JOHN wearing the slippers he so loved and violated in unspeakable ways? hm?hm?hm? Just pondering... lol Love you and had a wonderful time it was soooo worth it! Lubs ya both! Shebs
lololol sorry shebs still dont say it right... just wanted to say what a great time and we need another soon!! btw Twitch and be^Twitched.... love your writings on the site... very nice and good luck to you both love yall.. dwskwared
I know just how you feel, Buttercup~~it's the way I felt when I met my guy~~Came at a time I wasn't looking for anyone~~and we met in a chat room as well~3 years' ago in March. I knew I loved him~~And his finally being able to call me his girlfriend~and refer to himself as my boyfriend~is a big step for him. It's going a bit slower with us than with you and John (and we're closer to boot!!)~But we're working on it. I wish all the Best for you two~~God Bless.
awww 'm so glad that you are both happy...buttercup i've never seen my dad this happy in 22 years thank you for making him so happy i love you both love carrie xxxx
the best thing that ever happened to him, god only knows if we hadnt shown him that chatroom lol
love aaron xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
John, you're a very lucky man. Your blog, and your love for her, is inspiring. - Ali
Thanks for the kind words Christine - I'm going to put up a link to your blog on mine.
You two make a very nice couple...I'm so happy for you.
Kathy F.
Well honeys - you asked me my opinion - you know me - you gonna get an earfull - ROFL..........
What you have found .... is in more ways than one - a miracle - a gift from God...... cherish it and honour it ...... and always know where it came from. Those were not hardships or battles.... those were Gods ways of making you both more sure and more prepared for your walk together in life. And the tears you both cried ..... were what created and moulded the pearls...... the pearls of wisdom. I never doubted that His will would come true.... but if we want to do His will.. we have to follow His time schedule .. not our own. And you guys did so I have no doubt in my mind you will have a stunning future together.... I wish for you ... a blessed future together ..... forever. Anthonette
aww ... you guys are so inspirational! my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship now, we ain't just in a different states. we're in different countries!
anyway, i wish you guys all the best!! *MuWaH* teecee!! - Ninna
Hi, just checking out your blog. You two look so adorable together =)
I met my boyfriend on the Internet too, we've been together for 4 years now, and next year we're planning to get engaged. So I guess finding love online IS for real. - estalia
This is an awesome site. I applaud you two, it is good to hear about such a wonderful, successful relationship that began in a way that many people tend to disapprove of--the internet. I have made a few good friends online and it's nice to see another good story come out of cyberspace. - Esther
Buttercup and John,
A reminder from the Dalai Lama: "Keep in mind that Great love and great achievements in life involve a great amount of risk" (From "Instructions for life")
Hugs, from wysiwyg
(In response to our writing a book) Hippy Monkey said - That'd be a good book, I would read it! - - - Two lost souls meeting on the internet, separated by an ocean and a shifting political global climate. However, they spend years fighting against the systems of tyranny and cast away their overcome their shackles of oppression to allow their true love to bloom, leading to a long, happy life together. - - - : ) There's your back cover!
happy belated birthday and this is one helluva blog/life u've got there... =O) - Evil Quava
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